Where there’s a will,
There may be discontent.
1) Beneficiaries aren’t always happy with their lot.
2) More angry are those who thought they were in a will but discover that they aren’t.
Some of the latter cases make the news, especially when large sums of money are involved.
It’s not pleasant, and in most cases, it’s unnecessary.
Communication of your wishes in advance is one way to smooth things out with the parties in Group 1.
You may or may not choose to advise those in Group 2. You’ll have your reasons for leaving them out.
Here’s a certainty,
If you want to be sure to create discontent and angst for your loved ones when you are no longer here,
Don’t write a will.
Without a written will, your wishes will be argued on hearsay.
“Mum or Dad wanted me to have this.”
“He or she always promised the house/farm/holiday home/car/jewels would come to me.”
Without a written will, you may also sow the seeds for splits. Where siblings fall out and never speak to or see each other again.
And if you’re not married to your partner, they may find themselves without a home and at the mercy of your child or children for their future.
I’m not saying these things to scare you.
These are all real-life situations I see in my work.
To avoid this kind of unpleasantness, make a will.
I can help you do that and help you create a plan that ensures your wishes are carried out as you would like.
Call me on 020 8364 6789, or email [email protected]
Best regards,
Graham